That Means You’re Talking About It. Money is one of the top stressors in any relationship—and divorce doesn’t change that. Financial tension often escalates during separation. But here’s the twist: arguing about money can actually be a good sign. Why? Because it means you’re engaging. You’re not ignoring it. You’re not shutting down. A Real-Life Example Recently, I received an email from a frustrated woman in the middle of her divorce. Her soon-to-be ex-husband had filed hi