“You’re Fighting About Money Again?” GOOD!

That Means You’re Talking About It.

Money is one of the top stressors in any relationship—and divorce doesn’t change that.  Financial tension often escalates during separation. But here’s the twist: arguing about money can actually be a good sign. Why? Because it means you’re engaging. You’re not ignoring it. You’re not shutting down. 

A Real-Life Example

Recently, I received an email from a frustrated woman in the middle of her divorce. Her soon-to-be ex-husband had filed his income tax return without discussing with her...big no no. He chose to itemize deductions on the return, which forced her to itemize as well—even though it wasn’t beneficial for her own tax situation.

She felt blindsided and frustrated. She was right to feel that way. More should have been done in advance.

But here’s the important takeaway: this situation could have been avoided with a proactive financial conversation. Tax decisions, financial planning, asset division, and even credit card debt—these all need to be part of an open and informed negotiation.

Why Money Fights Matter

Look at the money arguments as an opportunity. When you’re talking about money, it should create a foundation for your new post-divorce reality. The key is to stop reacting emotionally and start planning intentionally.

Divorce involves complex financial decisions—from tax filing strategies and division of assets, to support calculations and future planning. These decisions affect not only you, but also your children, your lifestyle, and your long-term goals.

Here’s What You Can Do

1. Talk—Even If It’s Tense

2. Don’t Let Emotions Drive Your Financial Choices

3. Seek Professional Guidance- A divorce coach can help you process the emotional side of the transition while a CPA provides clarity on the financial front. You need both. Together, we’ll help you approach money talks with confidence—not chaos.

4. Plan like your future depends on it—because it kind of does. These decisions affect you, your kids, your weekends, your wardrobe budget... you name it.  

Ready to Take Control of the Money Conversation?

Does this money-fight loop resonate with you?  Or worse, are you also ignoring the issue entirely.  It's time to take control.

Book a consultation today. Let’s turn chaos into clarity.

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